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		<title>Independent thought</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[This post by Seth Godin made me think. People are just begging to be told what to do. There are a lot of reasons for this, but I think the biggest one is: &#34;If you tell me what to do, the responsibility for the outcome is yours, not mine. I&#8217;m safe.&#34; Whenever you are working [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2010/02/the-relentless-search-for-tell-me-what-to-do.html">This post</a> by Seth Godin made me think.</p>
<blockquote><p>People are just begging to be told what to do. There are a lot of reasons for this, but I think the biggest one is: &quot;If you tell me what to do, the responsibility for the outcome is yours, not mine. I&#8217;m safe.&quot;</p>
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<p>Whenever you are working with people, how many times have you had to think for everyone else? Everything looks hunky-dory and people seem to be listening to you. But do you know why they are listening? Because that way, they do not have to think, because then they are not responsible. When sh!t hits the ceiling, it will be most likely you who would be doing the clean up. </p>
<p>Try what Seth says, the guru is right. Refrain from telling them what needs to be done. Let your team struggle, let the people take up the mantle. Some of them will start liking being independent. Foster and nurture these pieces of independent thought, and you have a sustainable knowledge practice up and running. </p>
<p>A lamp in pure darkness is bright, but its not as bright as a lamp and 3-4 flickering sparks. </p>


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